Date of Award


Document Type

Project Portfolio

Degree Name

Doctor of Ministry (DMin)



First Advisor

Julie Dodge, DMin

Second Advisor

Pablo Morales, DMin

Third Advisor

Jason Clark, DMin, PhD


In times of loss, communities of faith come alongside bereaved individuals to offer support. That support is often short lived. When the casseroles stop, grieving people feel isolated and underserved in communities of faith when pastors and community members are ill-equipped and unprepared to care for them.(2)

The reason pastors and community members are ill-prepared to care for those grieving is historically, culturally, and theologically complex. Tackling such complexity is beyond the scope of this project. Implementing Occam’s Razor, where the simplest solution, with the least moving parts, suffices, enables me to address my NPO in a creative way.(3)

For Christians, Jesus’ life serves as a model of how to live and love in this world. Philippians 2:5-11 provides a concise and foundational text of Jesus moving proximate to humanity by becoming fully human. Proximity to humanity necessitated navigating loss and grief, and being present with others as they do the same. What does it look like for people who follow Jesus to personally and communally move proximate to their humanity, so they can be present with the humanity of others?

To address this question, I developed an 8-week, one-credit, graduate level spiritual formation course for Portland Seminary entitled “Discovering Life Through Loss and Grief.” Through the metaphor of pilgrimage and developing the spiritual practice of memento mori, “remember you will die,” students acknowledge their humanity by engaging with and integrating personal stories of loss and grief. (4) Course resources and format invite them to practice companioning one another in grief as they listen to each other’s stories of loss. Giving language to loss awakens us to the realities of what it means to be human. Speaking our stories reminds us we are not alone. In sharing, we discover new life emerges from death in profoundly unexpected ways.

(2) This is my working NPO. It was shaped after assimilating responses from the required discovery session and one-on-one interviews, hosted in November 2019, for my project portfolio.

(3) Farnam Street, The Great Mental Models, Vol. 1: General Thinking Concepts (Ottawa, ON: Latticework Publishing, Inc. 2019), 160.

(4) Wikipedia, “Memento mori,” accessed January19,2022,

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